What
are your Goals in life?
What
motivates you to succeed in reaching your goal?
How
do you measure your own personal success?
What
is the underlying factor or fear blocking you from concurring your goal?
They
always say patience is a virtue; this is true however if we do not have a plan
or a call to action patience alone will not assist in concurring your
goal. Goal for the purpose of this post
can be anything that you personally want to attack with a plan or call to
action something that you want and need to change in your life this year.
I
have always had so many goals and so many ways of reaching them, and at times
in my life I was extremely successful and at other times I was hitting road
blocks which just started to shut me down inside, I became a very different
less confident version of myself, which those who know me knew something was
just not right and they could tell I was silently struggling with sorting life
out.
I
knew I needed to isolate the items in my life that needed to change and things
that I could easily control.
I
reached out to an amazing woman, a woman that knew and saw her passion and she
is extremely successfully in so many areas of her life, because she took
control of her life. I asked her to come
over with her husband to help me understand the method to her madness…they told
me that in order to get to my goal no matter what the goal is or was, I needed to
isolate the goal and put an attainable plan in place to achieve the goal,
something realistic and something I could stick with. This was not a plan I
just voiced, I was told to write down my top 10 goals for 2013, as once they
were on paper it meant that I have identified and the items that were obviously
important enough for me to target them one by one. Truthfully at times I can start 10 things and
finish 3 of those 10 things “well” the other items have been on my “list” for
years and has never gotten anywhere, until now… and I am VERY successful, yet
not as efficient as I possibly could be.
So
first I want to share with you my top 5 goals for 2013, and share with you
where I am at with these goals…
1)
I
need defined “Family time” blocked on my life calendar- this may seem overly
basic for many of you… this was an area I was lacking balance in…I have taken
the time to block family time in my calendar, as an example Monday’s I have
allotted to the afternoon and evening as for my daughter for her swimming
lesson, I am there with her and take her to each lesson and we have quality
time each and every morning as this job allows me the flexibility to take her
to school each day. ( my life calander
is one calander that pulls work and life all together to keep me in one spot
and to maintain the focus I need)
2)
I
made my office space my own- I work from home, so I needed to set up a business
area that would magnify and motivate my success daily so I feel motivate
walking into my office and leaving it each day. I have set up a huge calendar to physically
track my success which has kept my vision alive daily and I have changed my
filing system to keep me more organized.
3)
Start
eating a cleaner diet for me and my family- which ultimately goes back to making
sure that I can address health concerns I have and nip them in the butt by
planning what I eat, and taking the time to eat, which in a busy lifestyle that
can be tough. I am making improvements
in this area, but I need more focus on this to stay extremely consistent.
4)
Increase my household income substantially for
2013- I want to travel, I want to really increase my savings and be debt free
if possible this year.
5)
I
want to look in the mirror and feel amazing, may sound very VAIN, its not, I
want to be able to look myself in the eyes and know that I am kicking butt with
the focus and the dedications I have in place for my 2013 Goals.
I
will be honest my list of goals is about 50-75 items, silly items to really
cool things I want to do one day…. It can be a bucket list, my advice to you is
not to leave it as a bucket list, place a call to action, and take it in small
strides. You need to measure your
success along the way consistently to make sure you are headed in the right
direction.
My
passions in life are what keeps me going on a daily basis, my “why” is my
daughter, she is the reason I want to share this blog with you. We have so much fun everyday and we laugh and
we joke and we make silly faces and say crazy things, however at the end of the
day when I am reading her a story, in that moment I am all hers, I am not
thinking about anything else but that moment in time and I am savoring that
moment. She needs to know consistency
and how as a parent can we teach something we may not be very good at
ourselves.
I
challenge you to writing down your goals, talk to me, talk to anyone who will
listen, make a coffee group or a wine group or a book group and keep your list
with you and add to it daily Share your lists with those in your life. Trust me this has dramatically changed my
life.
But
before you make this life-changing list… Give yourself a moment or two and
figure out what your “WHY” is…. Understanding your reason for motivation will
give you the disciplines and the passion required to make your dreams
realities.
And
the best advice I can give is… Smile, Smile all the time, Smile at or to
everyone, the worst that can happen is they don’t acknowledge your gesture, but
the health benefits and the mood elevation you will feel will flood you with
emotions.
